One’s destiny is altered b’coz of the One decision
This was what is written in one of my ex-college mate’s nick in MSN and I was thinking to myself, what one decision, so serious that can alter one’s destiny? Then I thought and remembered, there is One and it only takes One decision in life to either make it or break it. You’ll either live with it happily or ruined it.
There are times in life, that you can only see the present and not able to look into the future, but we are aware every choice and every decision we make in life will have consequences. It will either face out immediately, or years to reveal to see true colors, side effects, etc.
I have seen people make impulsive decisions, decisions full of uncertainty. Where many of our decisions are influenced by our surroundings, the people we mix with, upbringing and even your loved ones. From the day you were born, your parents have made some decision for you, such as what milk powder to consume, which kindergarten to register you, primary then secondary school. For most of us who have already know what are their interest and what they want to do or courses that they would like to further their studies, then its again a decision you made and that may alter your destiny.
In society today, I have seen many relationships come and go, marriage is made so simple and with a snap of a finger you’re married. Well that works when you’re in “Cloud 9″ but after that when you see each others true colors, let’s pray that everything is going to be alright. Cos sometimes, love doesn’t really conquers all, things ain’t the way it seem to be. Well, thru movies you see happy endings but not all. Some get married, because the gf’s are pregnant and they have so call “no choice” but to take up the responsibility. But being a girl, I feel it is so helpless, when things are rush into it. Some have their ROM paper signed but no wedding ceremony yet, then 1 year down the line, they find they not suitable for each other anymore. That is when, the honeymoon period has passed, haha and they become enemies for life. That’s not all, your single life is Ruin. Thank God for those who do not have babies yet, else the innocent child will have to face either 1. Non-peaceful family 2. Divorce parents and things may get even more complicated if they re-marry and have their own kids and wow i’m thinking too far. (It’ll be something like “Gossip Girl” just that not in that Elite lifestyle) – just wondering, what would be their children’s ideal family like?
Well off course there are some who live happily, I would say among my circle of friends so far, it’s a 50-50 kinda thing. Let’s see what happen later on in life. I’ll surely blog bout this =)
Decisions, decisions, decisions, and yes, life is full of decisions
Good day’ People!