Visit to my Po-po’s
In view of the “Cheng Beng” festival, whereby it is the time of the year where Buddhist goes to the cemetery to pray, visit, offer offerings to the gods to continue protecting and take good care of those rested in peace. I also got to know that for Buddhist, there are a certain time to go and one should not go pray / visit more than once and also there are certain rituals practices to comply to.
However in this modern day contacts, I am not sure how many young people would know all the rituals unless they have been practicing it year in, year out following their parents practices. Even if they do, would they know the logic behind it?
For me it is a time of remembrance of your loved ones whom you have much loved, live life with, and reminiscence on good times spent during the person’s live on this earth. It has been a few weeks that I heard is “Cheng Beng” and I asked my mom if we needed to go put some flowers on my Grandma’s cemetery as a sign of remembrance to her. As Christians, things are pretty simple and straight forward, what’s important is the sincerity from the heart and the time spent to just go pay a visit and replace the old flowers. I believe she is now watching us from heaven above and having a better life there than here on earth. Where heaven have no tears and no pain. So this afternoon, I bought some daisies and chrysanthemum along the way preparing for a visit to the PJ Christian cemetery.
My simple flower arrangement, looks pretty fresh and brightens up the environment isn’t it? hehe
Just realize i bought too many and the left overs were brought back home for simple dining table deco. (I realize I am turning to become a more homely person, would love to cook and bake some day
) It was also in conjunction with Good Friday and Easter, it reminds me that our life on earth is just temporary and we will one day be reunited with God with our heavenly bodies while our body on earth will turn back to dust and fade away.
One thing i realize looking at the photos i took this afternoon, is that, my grandma is also “staying” at house number 21! Which she was supposedly shift in with us to our Subang house on Nov 2006, but sadly she didn’t make it through. Being there made me realize how time past so quickly and she has been gone for more than 2.5 years now. Our last visit was about 6 months ago, during the 2 year anniversary.












